Remembering... Go ahead and mention my loved one, The one that died, you know. Don't worry about hurting me further, the depths of my pain doesn't show. Don't worry about making me cry, I'm already crying inside. Help me to heal by releasing the tears that I try to hide. I'm hurt when you just keep silent, pretending he didn't exist. I'd rather you mention my son,knowing that he has been missed. You asked me how I was today,I say, "pretty good " or "ok". But healing is something ongoing , I feel will take a lifetime.